Hi Ape.

I have a serious problem. I meet lots of nice girls. Some of them even want to date me. But I’m attracted to the mean, bitchy ones. It sucks! I mean, what is up with that? Why would I put myself through that on purpose and why can’t I for once date a nice one? My girl friends give me shit for it, and actually so do my guy friends so you know it’s bad. Any help would be much appreciated.
First off, I’m loving the spate of …

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 2 years, and we get along great. We spend a good amount of time together, are interested in all of the same things, have met each other’s families, and have great sex. However, he is not in love with me. He says he just doesn’t feel a “spark” for me, but he cares about me deeply and doesn’t want to break up.
The only girls he’s ever felt this “spark” for are girls that won’t give him the time of day. Also, he’s 30 and …

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