Ape,
I met this guy online because we have mutual interests. He is friends of friends but lives in a different country. But since we have the same interests and nerd out about the same things, we chat a lot, so of course it’s gotten a bit flirty. What’s your take on meeting over the internet? Is it dumb that I have a crush? I can’t go into details, but we are both into obscure art and have the same tastes. It’s not often I meet someone that likes the same …

OK, I am not macho, very far from it, but here’s my question . . . when did guys become such ladies?
I mean it’s cool to be in touch with your girlie side, and all and be clean and respectful and open doors and dress nice and send flowers and remember b-days and stuff . . . but really aren’t we the ones who are totally blessed with the oblivious/I want to care but I just can’t gene? All I hear lately from dudes is how hung up …