Dear Ape,
Somewhere along the way I’ve lost my confidence. It’s hard to admit too because in many areas of my life I’m a strong, independent person who wants something and makes it happen. However, when it comes to communicating with guys I really like, I can’t say how I feel to save my life. I over think everything, I worry because I still don’t have myself figured out so I don’t want to involve someone else and I become paralyzed. And the only person I’m sabotaging is myself. I get …

apers,
a few weeks ago, i went on what turned out to be one of the best first dates of my life. what started out as drinks led into dinner, dessert, the best make-out sesh ever and a sleep-over (but no sex). we were both already excited about meeting each other because we’d been texting back and forth
the two days before we finally met and the bantering was really flirty and funny, and our date only confirmed that not only did we have a ton of stuff in common, including the …

Ape

help a guy out transition to the digital age. I’ve got the facebook and the instant messenger.. I can text on my iphone and all that. Recently I’ve been talking with this girl on various digital forms that I have always been friends with. But lately she keeps mentioning I call her. Not a lot, but a few times. It’s confusing me… does that mean she wants to step it up? Does she just hate the texting? Help me with this transition ape, I think im text-damaged. I …