hi ape, im hoping you can give me some advice on a situation I’m embarassed to talk about with my friends and people who know me. well, I’m a 20-year-old male and I’ve always been attracted to older women. unfortunately, it is usually females my age who are attracted to me. up to this point, “older” has meant maybe 4-6 years older and the women i have dated have had, for the most part, no trouble fitting in with my friends and my lifestyle.
Recently, i met this woman who …

dear ape,
so i have this friend…

who met this guy on the internet. not on some matchmaking website (that would make this all the more easy) but on a blog. a blog like this. you know, blogger posts stuff, people read and enjoy. blogger accepts comments and posts, so she commented and posted. and the nice blogger would write back. after a few exchanges through email in regard to the content of the blog, more emails began getting exchanged in regard to other stuff. not related to the blog. then …