So I noticed that my BF has been looking on the m4m pages of a personals site- mostly ads that say “discreet bi guy…”. He has never mentioned being bi or having a male/male fantasy. Do I confront him? Does bisexual end up gay? Help!!!
Uh.. not looking good. Let’s take this nice and slow. I’m assuming you discovered this information from the classic browser history search? When are these dudes going to learn how to cover their tracks? It’s always the same…they leave it strewn across the cyber-history like dirty …

Hey Ape.
I’ve got a fairly general question for you, I’m the kind of guy that kinda gets locked into relationships almost by accident. I’m pretty accommodating: really laid-back about shit and demand very little. It has been my experience that for whatever reason, girls get easily attached. This alone isn’t really a problem because I much prefer to date in a boyfriend/girlfriend arrangement than non-exclusively, but since getting out of a long, slowly degrading relationship a year or two ago, I don’t really want to date anyone for very long. …